Every word you use has a DICTIONARY meaning and a meaning that begins with your experience. I realised, that people see life according to their own personal dictionary. Read that twice… their own personal dictionary and every word has a meaning connected to their lives and so, when you are speaking to someone for the first time or anytime, you need to ask them… “meanings” for most often used words “Love” “Friendship” “Family” and their response should be able to ASSIST you take the CONVERSATION forward or choose to CLOSE the DOOR.

Since, I, Connected with Darkness in 2018, the journey in the MASCULINE or as the person of Deepanjali has been one of allowing a lot of new experiments and experiences and a lot of changes. while I seem to be a social disaster… for a lot of vocabulary on my communication seems to come from NOWhere or NOwhere and that is because… the Feminine… Darkness invites YOU and I to engage is a VOCABULARY shift with the PRIMAL purpose… of “Change how you engage with WORDS…. words are more than sounds that make sense because you are told so by a dictionary”

“Change how you engage with WORDS…. words are more than sounds that make sense because you are told so by a dictionary”

Healing with Love and Gratitude

Love means different things to different people… there are those who SEE love as a physical extension of lust. There are those who see an animal and experience LOVE. There is love for food and love for cooking for cooking food, some people just love watching people eat or watching what people are eating.

Love to me has meant… loving people as they are… especially when they are difficult to love and even more love is needed. The world needs love at so so many levels of Love the question you need to ask your-self… is

It is very important for you to now begin to notice the BORROWED vocabulary… words that have been handed down the family line and mean things that may have made sense in the past … yet… maybe detrimental to your life now… and detrimental for the future.

From a personal example… I have grown up listening to my mum tell me her biggest regret … was to not listen to her parents when it came to choosing her husband/my father. I understood, that all I wanted was her approval on ANY man I chose… and that APPROVAL extended to the others that be.came a part of my 2meterCircleOfLife. My Mother would meet and find something to disapprove and that would and has eventually led to my own disapproval. The funny part is… only recently… I actually realised and addressed this DILEMMA and had to speak to her… to STOP… since… While this may have been true for her… not necessarily true for me… or anyone else. That having a SAY in my DECISIONS as my MOTHER was a PRIVILEGE of TRUST… that she ENJOYS… and till the TRUST remains… the PRIVILEGE remains. I don’t know how many of us… go through this without realising… especially for those of us who were raised “honour your mother and father” was always a complete sentence… till “your mother and father honour you”.

There are also Husband and Wife rules that don’t make COMMON sense anymore… a friend of mine brings up the conversation and I hear myself saying… “Husband and Wife are one TEAM not two separate people” … and I know I believe that to be true… the idea of being MARRIED isn’t for the PHYSICAL alone… it comes with the IDEA to LIVE every DREAM and NIGHTMARE with ONE person… knowing that they know you like NO OTHER… and maybe… that is when the whole… PHYSICAL you with another PHYSICAL you comes into play and the word “FAMILY” becomes a REALITY.

Feminine Dominion… calls for you to change the way to PERCEIVE and then implement the new CONCEPTS in your EVERYday Things to begin to shift from the PAST towards the FUTURE.

Today, I felt a RELATIONSHIP jolt… like I wanted to RUN away… to leave to abandon.. to throw in the towel… I prayed… and guess what I was told… “Focus your attention on the changes that have already happened… and thank you for reminding US … on that which you notice are still in PROCESS“