It is all about… YOU and your choices. You are being made aware of the PARADOX… there are those who are chosen to Praise and chosen one prays.

It is becoming more evident, that there are a lot of changes I am getting to understand and so, must share with you. We are all being called to simply NOTICE the Paradox and make notes while on the way… I have been bumping into challenges and even more excited to meet a perspective that I once … never considered.

In the last two years… I have honestly been through a lot of situations and choices and for most parts, I made choices that would make other people happy, not that they asked, these were my choices in the moment of the moment. I realised, saying “No” was always a challenge… and for a lot of parts still is. Then came a time when I was the one who was on the asking side and it surprised and shocked me, how easy it was for the same people to, so confidently say “No” to Me.

It hurt, I felt rejected, just for the records, I am still in the same LESSON… so, pardon my CONFIDENCE… I was denied all that I asked for and that is when I realised that it is true, that our experiences expand our perspective and the shift in perspective be.comes the “Choice of Light”. Till someone spoke to me… to help me understand, that the reason why I was being rejected over and over again, wasn’t because I did not deserve, just that it was to help me understand that it is OK to say “No”.

That it wasn’t “God’s Plan” for me to always say “Yes”… that most of my pain, came from the No’s I did not acknowledge or did not honour, because sometimes saying no to others is the beginning of saying “Yes” to your heart.

It is also wonderful to acknowledge the failure to say “No” that is important. I spent years, trying to be everything to everyone… so many times, that NOW, when I acknowledge and celebrate the “No” I have been given … I “know” that better… and listening to my heart, I learnt, NO is a power-filled game changer. Every-person who I said “yes” expanded my experiences of learning to do things, I would otherwise NOT have experienced. Today, my confidence in “No” has grown to a gift, I can say NO and know with Clarity, the purpose, it is important to practice saying “No”, it opens up the heart.

There are times though, when I can clearly understand how people use “Emotion” to draw me into Drama, into their Drama into their story, yet, just till they NEED me to invest my Thought.Emotion.Action…. and YES I learnt this important lesson from the many No’s I have received.